Relationship Success free of psychic barriers
No one can achieve correct relationship with another; until first you have correct relationship within yourself in the first place. Only way to achieve correct relationship within yourself; is to take down your own psychic barriers. So that in this way you will come to see your own self clearly. While you approach any relationship with psychic barriers in place. Then by definition you will always project your limitations; onto another instead of facing them in yourself in the first instance.
In summary this will mean that you will sabotage every relationship into your future with relationship failure. Every relationship failure presents an opportunity with the crisis of opportunity. As severe emotional trauma can unbalance and unhinge the established psychic barriers. Which can allow more soul light into your consciousness. This phenomenon is commonly called the psychic insights. In passing I will mention that these psychic insights can be gained far more easily; and with far less emotional trauma with insight meditation practice.
Therefore in this way you may come to see your own psychological pattern more clearly. Which is to become a more conscious human being. However we will begin with relationship failure; because it is here that we have the seeds for success. On our journey into consciousness this is where we all usually commence serious spiritual evolution.
Relationship Failure with psychic barriers
Psychological or psychic barriers do not protect but imprison. Which explains why relationships that are framed within barriers of protection; are all doomed for failure. Which presents a crisis of opportunity. Changing your life partner is not a solution in itself; because you take your barriers with you. Thereby creating the same unbalanced pattern; with another person with exactly the same consequences. Person who puts up or creates the barriers in the first place; is the only one who can take them down.
In the case where you have chosen to take your barriers down; but your partner in life has chosen to keep theirs. Well in this case it is perfectly justifiable to walk away; which is in direct comparison to running away. As you adopt this action in complete consciousness.
See truth within oneself
Psychological resistance has nothing to do with the person; who just happens to be the focus of attention the messenger. But everything to do with the inability or lack of motivation; to see the truth within oneself in the first place. Or simply to say face the truth of the message! Shooting the messenger is never a solution in life.
As a natural consequence limitations not faced in yourself; are then projected onto the other person. These limitations have nothing at all to do with them. In common language it is called the neurotic pattern; because there is a disconnection between thinking and feeling. With superficial relationships these resistance patterns are usually not so noticeable.
Psychic barriers lead to the creation of blind spots; because these psychological patterns operate outside conscious awareness. Therefore as a consequence; when an individual continually resists life learning lesson messages. He will generate further psychic barriers to prevent further unwanted messages. The more intensely the individual resists; then a whole range of negative emotions will be progressively created; which will form toxic psychic poisons.
Which causes an auto intoxication of the body that depletes brain chemicals. This is the underlying basis for various psychiatric disorders. In its most severe form a process that will eventually lead to insanity. A demonstration that a totally uncontrolled ego without any soul light influence at all will progressively destroy itself.
Psychological resistance is revealed with deeper discussion
However as soon as the topic of discussion moves onto deeper levels like religion, spiritual science, politics or psychology in particular. Then consequently these barriers become far more easily seen. Because there is the inevitable; “no I do not wish to discuss this or even look at that”. Classic psychic barrier comment is “I do not want to look at or change anything”. Ultimate defining expression is “leave me alone”, which is the complete blanket shutout.
An additional defining comment is simply “I do not care”. Making this very serious flippant comment; indicates that the individual concerned does not care about their own spiritual growth. This psychological pattern reveals a mental level switch off due to emotional overload. When you speak with someone who has barriers in place against you. There is a feeling of being shut out. Which is exactly what psychic barriers are designed to do.
Basis of psychological resistance is fear. Which is a fear of weakening the power of the ego. Which is precisely what happens. When the soul exerts greater control of the life pattern of the entity. It is only a mirage that we all must pass through to evolve spiritually. At every turn in the road a man must turn and face himself. A reference to the quality or capability of self observation; the basis upon which all spiritual growth forward is based.
Ego protecting itself is the basis of illusion
Everything begins with the ego protecting itself; which is the whole basis of illusion. In the consciousness of the individual; he thinks that he is protecting himself from an outside threat. However what he is really protecting himself against; is the illumination of his ego by his own soul light.
These psychological barriers create a resistance in the aura, which distorts perception. A psychic bubble that disconnects you from the people around you. With the natural additional secondary consequence of being insensitive to the feelings of others. Therefore invariably people living this pattern will experience; a sense of loneliness, isolation and emptiness.
Many in this category will seek out many superficial relationships within a social network for sensual gratification. Which does absolutely nothing to correct the feeling of inner reality emptiness. No amount of social butterfly networking activity will ever dissolve that feeling of inner insecurity. If anything this escapism only makes matters worse. Only an inner level connection with your own soul; will ever dispel the feelings of loneliness. Because you are connected to the whole in your consciousness.
Psyche resistance denial of personal responsibility
Inherent in the psyche resistance pattern is the denial of personal responsibility; for what is put out into the universe in the first place. For example all the negative emotions of fear, resentment and anger; that are a natural consequence of any person who demonstrates emotional immaturity.
Many people may think that their resistance is only to a difficult person to deal with. Never realizing that their barriers have been in place for a very long time beforehand. In fact usually carried over from previous lifetimes. An obvious observation is that the only barrier. That can not be put up more strongly; is a barrier that does not exist in the first place.
Psychic barriers slow down energy
Barriers of resistance slow down energy creating a lower frequency, which feels unwholesome, off putting or disconcerting. In many cases can lead to the mental state of depression; as the individuals concerned can see no solution. Every painful experience is an opportunity to put more psychic barriers up or to take existing psychic barriers down. It is all a question of your spiritual maturity; to look under the code or deeper into how the patterns of life are created.
To achieve a solution firstly an individual needs to accept 100% responsibility for how they feel. Next there needs to be a realization or awareness of being entrapped in illusion. Naturally the next step is to ask why and to seek escape. You are your attitudes. Therefore in the event where you experience a pain and suffering life experience. This may be used as an opportunity to take barriers down with surrender and letting go.
Advanced meditation dissolves psychic barriers
To clarify the main bulk of psychic barriers can be removed; during a crisis of opportunity when experiencing a psychic insight or intuitive flash. Which reflects a deep and significant attitude change. Insight meditation is the discipline of focussed concentration; to increase the flow of soul energy from the oversoul. Which will illuminate the higher mind and so dissipate any existing psychic barriers within our being. Surface meditation enables you to receive psychic insights.
However it is only with deep meditation ability. That real structural permanent change occurs with the complete dissolving of the psychic barriers. Which means their complete removal from your being.
Discriminate between psychic barriers and energy protection
Psychic barriers which are a creation of the ego. Should not be confused with white light or energy protection; which has its origins from the soul. Which is a natural process; that will protect you from uninvited psychic intrusion by others.
Who among you has the ability to come with empty hands? Which in other words is simply to approach others with freedom from psychic barriers. Therefore recognising your limitations is the first step to doing something creative about them. So what are you waiting for? Book yourself into the meditation centre to improve the quality of all your relationships.
Methodology of how to discipline another adult is an essential aspect; that we all need to know and understand correctly. In relationship there are times. When it becomes necessary to discipline your partner in life. Because they are treating you unfairly and unreasonably.
Critical position is to stand firm to prevent the other person’s ego from successful domination. During this process you maintain the strength and warmth of inner love. Which can be felt by the other person, should they be open and sensitive enough to feel it. There is no switching off with an absence of caring; which is the usual consequence created with psychic barriers .
With holding of love with psychic barriers
Standing firm with inner love is in direct comparison to the withholding of love; which occurs with psychic barriers. This withholding of love happens within the individual in the first instance. But instead of accepting personal responsibility for what is being created. It is then projected onto another as with the holding of love for them.
By definition any severe emotional trauma can lead to a crisis of opportunity. So when the next relationship fails there will be presented another crisis of opportunity. Consequently there is also the possibility of receiving another psychic insight! Which is to see the truth of what you are really doing in the first place. In this way you come to see through your own great illusion and the wisdom of taking psychic barriers down.
Quite literally you will experience these relationship failures continually with crisis of opportunities. Until you really do get it and change your own psychic pattern. For many these patterns are lived as a continuously repeating cycle for many many lifetimes.
Crisis of opportunity
Crisis of opportunity defines the opportunity; that becomes available during the period of a peak relationship failure experience. During this focussed severe emotional impact experience; there can often be sudden influxes of soul light. That will come down from the oversoul and permeate the consciousness of the individual.
These psychic or intuitive flashes provide opportunity for raised levels of awareness. For example to see the real consequences of your own psychic barriers and the wisdom in taking them down, So that you may relate to the people around you; in a more real and genuine way.
Psychic barriers interfere with energy exchange
These barriers interfere with the mutual exchange of energy. In effect you are throwing out the baby; which is love out with the dishwater; which is unwanted negative emotions. Inherent in the psychic barrier protection pattern is an absence of deep, real and true caring for another. Once you come to see how enslaved you were to the withholding of love pattern; and then blaming someone else for it. There will arise within you a deep overflowing of love; that permeates your whole being. As you come to love everyone in a deep and caring way a total transformation.
Tough love in the face of adversity
To stand your ground in the face of adversity. Commonly is called tough love because it’s motivation is to provide an influence. That gives the best opportunity for the disciplined person to move from selfish to selfless behaviour. In other words to become more soul and less ego in their function. Which is the whole basis of spiritual evolution moving forward.
Source and solution to every problem is within the self
Love is an energy state to be discovered from within your own being. Can not be found outside of yourself. In the aspect that it will completely fulfill you from another. Which is an aspect of emotional sentimentality. Source and solution to every problem is within the self. Certainly being bathed in pure love from others is inspirational and uplifting. Additionally it will guide you in the correct direction for liberation. However it will never lead to a real sense of inner level security with self confidence; as an energy state of being in the first place.
While we look outside ourselves to solve our problems to fulfil our needs. Then unfortunately we are looking in the wrong place and will never find any real solutions. In the context of spiritual growth exclusive extrinsic perception leads nowhere while the balanced intrinsic approach leads everywhere. Which demonstrates the whole basis for the benefits derived; from the practice of a focussed to a point meditation technique.
Allow others to be
Perhaps you may find yourself on the receiving end from a person; who blames you for everything that opens and shuts. Allow others to be is the guiding principle. There is no need for you to do anything. In this way you will not be contributing anything to destabilize the relationship even further. Every relationship is a co creation; which means that both individuals are equally responsible for whatever is created.
True art of surrender is emotional non reaction. Same response when choosing either action or inaction; in relation to any particular energy; that is directed at you from within your own circle of concern.
Discrimination is our only protection in life. In the peace of understanding may we all dwell.