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Loser Excuses or Winner Solutions explores the distinction between individuals who create excuses and those who seek solution. Emphasizing the importance of personal responsibility. It states that the belief in being an “innocent victim” is a psychological trap that results in a lack of effort and ownership of one’s life. By accepting responsibility for one’s emotions and actions, individuals can transform into conscious creators of their reality, referred to as “white magicians.” The text further discusses unity consciousness versus duality, advocating for interconnectedness in relationships as a means to overcome a victim mentality. It concludes with the notion that life presents two paths: one of stagnation and illusions, and the other of conscious awareness and growth, where optimism is key to achieving success.
Loser Excuses or Winner Solutions
Perhaps we may all wonder why losers create excuses while winners create solutions. Hence revealing the fundamental psychological profile difference between these two energy states of being. A very important and critical life lesson is to recognize; that there is no such thing as the innocent victim. Because anyone who chooses this particular pattern; is only ever a victim by their own consent. Try, try and try again will always lead to a final winning position. In whatever aspect is sought. As the basic optimism of the individual leads to a continued persistent effort in a learning and readjusting process. That will eventually enable anyone to gain the life skills for creating success.
Which is to become the white magician. Experience is what you get along the way. When you pursue some particular life goal. Sure as you become more enlightened in your thinking. Then you may change your original aspirations and pursue some different goal. Before you have achieved your original intentions. This is perfectly acceptable within the framework; of creating a consciously achieved successful outcome. As you realize that your original goal may not have been the wisest choice. However always remember that one step follows another in consciousness.
Everyone Creates Their Own Reality
Probably it should be recognized. That there is often an inherent laziness; in choosing to be an innocent victim. Which results in a lack of effort to try. Because there is the expectation of failure anyway. A natural consequence of the lazy pessimistic approach to the challenges presented. So why would anyone ever choose to adopt the innocent victim pattern? Naturally so that the individual can live the illusion of not being responsible for their own life consequences. Until an individual first accepts 100% personal responsibility, which begins by taking ownership of emotions. Then there is no possibility to become a white magician.
The heavens will open up with endless possibilities. When any individual first decides to become emotionally responsible. This is instead of blaming others for any irritations felt. Or for that matter any other misfortunes that may befall you! Our sense of reality is determined. By the level of perception combined with the perspective used when viewing phenomena. As we successfully raise our frequency. Our perception will become more holistic in substance and quality. Which in other words will mean to become more soul and less ego orientated. In combination with everyone creates their own reality is the concept of the self fulfilling prophesy.
Unconscious Black Magician Creates Victim by your own Consent
So hence in the example of choosing to be a victim by your own consent. As an energy state that you will then project as a frequency pattern into the universe. This will then quite naturally be reflected back to you as the very same energy pattern. This is called mirroring or self-fulfilling prophesy. What you expect will happen does happen. This is the whole basis for understanding. That the source and solution to every problem is within the self. By changing your level of perception you will change your sense of reality. Resulting in a change to the whole pattern of your manifestation. In this way you become a conscious life creator or white magician rather the default state of the unconscious black magician.
Esoteric Truth
It is a timeless esoteric truth that the source and solution to every problem is within the self. However spiritually immature people will project their limitations onto others; instead of facing the issues in their own self. In this way a classic response by an innocent victim psychology person to a life message from a gur u. Oops I mean friend hahahaha. Would be to say something like. “You are a despicable person who is full of shit”. Which is commonly called shooting the messenger. An approach that is never a solution in life. As there is no correction to the underlying cause.
When a person lives a psychological pattern with a lack of full awareness for the full consequences of their thoughts and actions. This is usually referred to as having a blind spot. It is only by practicing correct self-observation can anyone ever learn about their own particular selective vision observations. The choice is to live within the shadows reacting to every perceived threat that comes towards you. Or live within soul light and face the limitations within your own self in the first place. When seeing the problem clearly. This will reveal the solution. In this way you learn to respond and not react.
Unity Consciousness
This leads us into a discussion about unity consciousness as opposed to the duality approach. Of which a victim by your own consent is only one very important example. Duality consciousness or the ego approach creates a sense of separation in all our personal relationships. Which is very destructive. In fact it forms the whole basis of all our wars. As it is rooted in the illusion of separation. Not to mention that it is also the underlying reason for divorce in the family unit.
Reactive behaviour is a by product. Or secondary consequence for the duality or separation consciousness perspective. When listening to anyone who is expressing their self. You can be easily see the underlying perspective. That is being used. Your family is not my family or your country is not my country etc etc. In untiy consciousness your family is my family and your country is also my country. Unity consciousness also forms the whole basis for creating true intimacy with another.
Victim by your own Consent Leads Nowhere.
When a person chooses to live within self illumination; this will create a movement from unconscious to conscious. Why would anyone in their right mind ever be content with being unconscious? Because this way of doing things only ever results in pain and suffering experience. Insight meditation is a dissolving meditation, which is a self observation process. In this way you learn as you go. By your own direct experience. You learn how to raise your own awareness to become a more conscious human being. It is a progressive raising and lightening of frequency.
Innocent victim is a psychological pattern chosen by individuals. Who choose not to be responsible. For their own particular self created life consequences. Victim by your own consent. Is only an illusion. That is a direct secondary consequence of fear. A mirage that you only need to walk through. An understanding of self protective psychology is an important element; in conscious movement in awareness from the contraction of ego to the expansion of soul. “Don’t worry be happy” is a quote from Meher Baba. Which demonstrates that optimism is the essential first step on the pathway to success.
Only Two Paths in Life
Our problems in life will remain the same. No matter who we are with. Nor where we choose to go. Because we take ourselves with us. This is even correct when we choose to take the illusion of escape with suicide.
As there are only two paths to choose from in life. This is either the circle path . Which is to run around in endless circles chasing the illusion. Or the straight up path. Which is to sit still meditating in order to escape the illusion.
Everyone is looking for success, inner peace and contentment? Are they not? Please keep in mind that this energy state will never ever fall out of any tree. It needs to be created. Just like everything else.
In the peace of understanding may we all dwell.
Brother Bert blesses you