In conclusion accelerate your spiritual evolution by visiting an Ashram. Thereby above all opening yourself up; to receive direct guidance on how life works.
Rules of entry to Ashram is sacrifice of ego desires or motivations. Which is firstly to abstain from all forms of intoxicants (i.e. alcohol, nicotine, caffeine, all illegal drugs and even prescription mood altering drugs); that will only dull the mind and hinder receptivity in gaining spiritual truth.